These are my top 3 things that all the best dating coaches are not and don’t do. In other words: I’m going to give you 3 secrets for recognizing bad dating advice and bad dating coaches so you’ll be able to find the best advice and coaches out there.
Knowing how to separate good advice and coaches from the ad ones will save you a lot of time, money, and energy. so, let’s get to it!
#1: Your Dating Coach Must Not Be About The Techniques
Who says all dating advice can be used in all situations all the time? That’s a lie. Any dating coach that tries to tell you something else is a liar.
Meeting women online is different from meeting women in clubs. What’s more, different kinds of women respond to different kinds of things.
There are a lot of dating coaches, dating gurus or whatever you want to call them that don’t know what really matters. They give you all kinds of clever techniques, tricks and tips without helping you get rid of your insecurities. Without helping you to build your confidence.
They claim to have the magic pill that always work, which is a lie. And then when they’re flawed advice fails? They don’t even have the respect for you to ask you how they can help you with your unique situation!
Teaching you techniques is letting you believe that there is something wrong with you. That you need techniques because you will not have success with women without them. That’s not true.
You just don’t know how to be yourself around women. You behave differently around women. But that’s only because you don’t know how and why to be yourself. No one showed you since the day you were born.
The best dating coaches (and best dating tips) show you how to reach your full potential, not 1000-and-1 techniques for manipulating women into liking you.
#2: Your Dating Coach Must Not Be A Gold Digger
I see too many gold diggers out there who pretend to have the right to give dating advice. They will ask hundreds of dollars for a product that only shows you their opinion. And that opinion is just a theory: it has never been proven in real life!
That’s why I say out loud right now: if you meet a guy (or girl) that gives you bad dating advice? You must always be able to get all of your money back. Even if you contact him 18 years from now.
Nothing is more personal than your love life, your fears, your insecurities. So if someone’s dating advice does not work for you personally? You should be able to get your money back. And I don’t care what the guy or woman says. Force him to give you your money back.
You have the right to get high quality advice, because your dating success is personal. Your dating success is about as personal as it gets!
So, be warned: try to see through all the awesome sounding marketing and branding. Unfortunately, there are more coaches out there that care about money and reputation more than they care about helping you.
The best dating coaches give you the truth even if you don’t want to hear it. Why? Because they’ll say what you need to hear and who knows: maybe you’ve been your own worst enemy without knowing it all these years.